Twitter Dance Card
April 9th, 2009 Posted by denisemBack in my Granny’s day the girls all wanted their dance cards full. It was a popularity contest. So when I got on Twitter I very quickly realized that all the cool kids had the equivalent of full dance cards — thousands of followers. The cooler, the more thousands. But not me. I was the plain girl in the corner of Twitter. I felt left out that I only had a few measly hundred followers, and all the other kids were piling up ridiculous numbers of dance partners (who could dance with thousands of people anyway?).
Of course as I was getting into my own little pity party I was also working my behind off with a booming business. And I was spending maybe 5 minutes once a week on Twitter. Duh. Kinda like going to the dance and hanging out alone in the bathroom. So I did a little experiment. I followed the “rules” and started following people whenever I had a few minutes. Sure enough, my follower numbers shot up quickly. Now “shot up” is relative. I still only spent a few minutes a day, but I was following anyone who wasn’t an axe murderer. I quickly learned to follow people who had a very close ratio of followers to following. I didn’t really care about the quality of their content — I wanted them to follow me. I wanted in on the popularity contest. Oh, I wasn’t a complete Twitter s!@ — I tried to follow people that were tweeting about things that are relevant to me.
As business got crazier I again neglected Twitter, and the flood of followers slowed to a trickle. Then this morning I stumbled upon a Mashable post that was on this very subject. http://bit.ly/azjOT
I realized pretty quickly that if I was serious about using Social Media to enhance my business, as well as my life, that I was going to forget being the Twitterholic, and instead focus on sharing good content and following relevant people. It’s amazing what you can learn in just a few minutes on Twitter. If you’re paying attention to content instead of numbers. Is Twitter working for you? Or are you a slave to Twitter?
P.S. I completely get that it’s easy for the unpopular kid to hide behind “Fine, I don’t want to be your friend anyway!” So go ahead and snicker. I figured out what works for me. Fake popularity be damned!



MJ says she is not going to do all the work on this blog. She says I have to start posting too. Who does she think SET UP this blog — me, that’s who! That’s MJ for you, always thinks she’s the only one working hard.